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Articles by Marisa Kabas

Marisa is a 23-year-old New York girl trying to figure it all out. She resides in NYC and works in PR.

Allow myself to introduce…myself
September 16, 2010 – 12:48 am | Comments
Allow myself to introduce…myself

The other night I had one too many.
I’m not telling you this because I’m proud of it (dude I was totttttallly wasted the other night…how freshman year would that be?) But as someone who does …

Sorry, was I being crass?
August 31, 2010 – 1:54 pm | Comments

In today’s egalitarian, post-glass-cieling, going-dutch-on-first-dates society in which we live, the idea that girls are supposed to be immune to curse words seems a little outdated.

Hello August, so we meet again
August 11, 2010 – 11:40 pm | Comments

I can’t fully explain it, but as soon as July passes into August something in the wind changes. Maybe it’s because my I know my birthday is rapidly approaching (it was August 4th, gifts and …

Chivalry 2.0
August 4, 2010 – 2:35 pm | Comments
Chivalry 2.0

I’m not asking for a singing telegram, but a thoughtful e-mail might be nice. Does a middle ground exist between the romantic communication of yesteryear and the careless channels of today?

The Fellowship of the Rings
July 9, 2010 – 9:06 pm | Comments
The Fellowship of the Rings

As young woman, I can always appreciate a nice piece of jewelry. However, every time I scope a guy out, I glance down at their hand and see a wedding band. What gives?

Texts and e-mails and wall posts…Oh my!
June 23, 2010 – 10:26 pm | Comments
Texts and e-mails and wall posts…Oh my!

The old rules of dating have no place in the modern dating world, but what are the new rules when it comes to navigating modern technology and communicating with potential love interests?

Not Exactly a “Joyride”
June 9, 2010 – 9:47 pm | Comments
Not Exactly a “Joyride”

In the search for stable employment “The road less traveled” can feel more like “the road to nowhere”: but I’m trying to read the signs, and hope one says “Dream Job: Next Exit.”

True Life: I want to have an Ex
May 26, 2010 – 11:32 pm | Comments

I’ve been so preoccupied with getting a boyfriend that I hadn’t realized that what I really needed was an EX-boyfriend. How am I supposed to learn from the mistakes in past relationships if said relationships don’t exist?